In the beginning of parenthood, I used Harper as an excuse way too much. Before long, I really started to feel limited in what I could accomplish. I was surrounding myself with so many unnecessary borders. Motherhood has taught me an innumerable amount of lessons, but one of the biggest is to stop making excuses. If you want to do something, you should be able to do it. Don't stop yourself because you will have to sacrifice a little or go out of your comfort zone. If I don't want to do something, I'm honest with myself. I don't blame my daughter anymore. If I really want to do something, I do it. Lately risk has been my middle name and its SO unlike me. I've thrown myself into the entrepreneur world. It has been the most amazing experience. It is so freeing. I recommend that everyone try something they have always wanted to. I recently started my own photography business. I got rid of all my dumb excuses: I don't have the nicest camera, I'm not as experienced as everyone else, I don't have the time, What if I am not any good? I don't want to look back on my life and think "what if." There is so much out in the world and I want to do it all. Even if it takes a little longer or a little more work because I am a mom, I know it will be worth it. I want to make the most of the life God gave me, and I want my daughter to know that the only limits she has are the ones she sets for herself. You are all unstoppable, powerful, good, and capable of anything you want. Take command of your life & be the you, you want to be. No excuses.
xo, Carly
